It's A Matter Of Love ( A Black Girls Method )

365 Days of Love LOVE is easy; there is not doubt about it. People make it hard; how do they make it hard? Well, they choose resentment, anger, they withdraw, stubbornness, withdraw from sex, and so on. How can anyone LOVE those things; all of the above are negative ways to be. None of those ways will Promote good loving relationships; they will promote brake down and Divorce. My question to you is what kind of LOVE do you desire to have with your loved one?  LOVE is Positive, LOVE is GOD; as it is said in the Bible " In all your ways acknowledge me". This means in our arguments and in our lovemaking, in our lives 365 degrees. This is how LOVE becomes easy!

365 Days of Love How beautiful, the snow fall has left us with a blanket of God's love. As we go about our day we can count our blessing and really appreciate our cuddle alert on yesterday. Keep in mind each season leave us with opportunities like yesterday, days filled with snow falls, rain, cold, hot beaming sun. All these days are gifts from God, that allows us to slow down, think, LOVE, to just be. It is up to us how we use them. I pray we use them to LOVE. As you and your Love awoke this morning. Did he look deep into your eyes as if to say (Dame!) that was gooood ! If so then yes... we did it. The cuddle alert was a success. We are back to work, most of us are walking around; with these silly little smiles on our faces , others that missed the alert are wondering what is going on.

365 Days of Love Today we are back on track right? Now let me ask you what does the word LOVE mean to you? I ask this because in our journey, we can not get to our destination if we're not clear. Do you know what kind of lover or partner you are in your relationship? for example... when there is an upset in the air. You pull back (A Subtractor) You make things hard for them (A Punisher) You try to make thing right again ( A Pleaser) You withhold sex (A Controler) He/She has never understood your point of view, He/She always control the argument... You are never right, they are always right, in all the whole three hundred years you've been together. (A Door Mat) Today we are in love with knowing we can choose...LOVE!