It's A Matter Of Love ( A Black Girls Method )

365 Days of Love As I continue from my last entry, we must remember the greatest LOVE we have is LOVE for self. We can not be successful in loving another if we do not first LOVE self. What does this mean? it means you have to be real about your situation, you may have to say not thank you to someone trying to offer you poison love, It hurt, your unhappy, your in a constant state of mental and emotional upset, all day, every day or most days; except for when your at work or dealing with other people, the moment your involved with him the turmoil starts. If you have a hard time with this, think recall Whitney Houston's song ( He should make you feel like a million dollars )in every way. Ladies, that has nothing to do with what goes on in the bed room. That's a bonus, don't get it twisted. We are the Queen for reason. Don't allow him to turn you into a peasant. Now did anyone enjoy the heavy snow fall we got on Monday 22nd of 2010. Did any one call a Cuddle Alert ?

365 Days of Love After talking with one of my vary beautiful girlfriends last night, I was inspired to go this route today... I don't want to confuse our journey, to LOVE 365 does not mean to except abuse in order to LOVE someone. We must give it to receive it, receive it to give it, it is reciprocated and is reciprocal. The first step is understanding LOVE... LOVE is patient, love is kind and is not jealous; LOVE does not brag and is not arrogant,it dose not hurt.. HURT is when you have a blacks eye, when he say words to you that kills your spirit, kills your self worth,when you cant complete a thought without him taking over, making it hes, you no longer have a voice, he does not validate your feeling, good or bad. He withholds his LOVE through using sex as a weapon as a tool to control or manipulate you, to deprive you of emotional fulfillment. These are all forms of Abuse. LOVE has a look and a sound;it is GOOD, LOVE is an Action word. When your mate say they LOVE you, their wo...

365 Days of Love Well, I must say; LOVE is in the air on my end, What about yours? Are you happy about where LOVE have you right now? If so tell me all about it... If not, Lets get creative and see where it takes us. Tell me some of the creative things you've tryed and we will go from there.

365 Days of Love Today is the day for LOVERS and LOVED ones, I'm enjoying my day. I hope that you are to. HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY!

365 Days of Love What will we do? How many expressions of love will go out on this day. I think it's great, that the hearts of people are awaken on this day. The question is... aren't we supposed to love intensely every day. Why, do we need a day to remind us to love one another? But, we do lets face it. we get all caught up in work, paying bills, raising our children, we forget. To LOVE. I'm a hopeless romantic, everything touch my heart. from the biggest to the smallest thing, For me LOVE is always on my mind. In everything I do, I know!, you hate me, no but seriously. I do think of LOVE, all day every day. That's what made this blog come alive. I needed an out let. I also have a deep desire to connect with others like me. I wish for all of us, that we receive Valentines, and Sweetest Day, everyday. Let not wait for these days to remind us to express. Lets express LOVE, with great intensity everyday. Then on these days we take it up a notch. OK , now we on the ri...

365 Days of Love It is not hard to take this challenge, when we understand the basics. The root of LOVE is GOD, or whom ever your Divine is. Jehovah, Buddha, ect ... Their purpose is to teach us LOVE, Because they are LOVE, So we may become LOVE. When you look in the mirror , do you see LOVE? You Should! We are to be LOVE! Breath LOVE! Speak LOVE! Give LOVE! Live LOVE! Hints ... the song " All WE NEED IS LOVE " and the expression... "LOVE MAKE THE WORLD GO ROUND ".

365 Days of Love How beautiful, the snow fall has left us with a blanket of God's love. As we go about our day we can count our blessing and really appreciate our cuddle alert on yesterday. Keep in mind each season leave us with opportunities like yesterday, days filled with snow falls, rain, cold, hot beaming sun. All these days are gifts from God, that allows us to slow down, think, LOVE, to just be. It is up to us how we use them. I pray we use them to LOVE. As you and your Love awoke this morning. Did he look deep into your eyes as if to say (Dame!) that was gooood ! If so then yes... we did it. The cuddle alert was a success. We are back to work, most of us are walking around; with these silly little smiles on our faces , others that missed the alert are wondering what is going on.

365 Days of Love Calling all LOVERS, This a national announcement ....Find your mates, no matter where they may be. Tell them they must get home right away, tell them...( baby it's cold outside) and on this cold winters day you need his/ her body heat to keep warm. As the snow fall, painting the ski with beautiful white promises of what the day could bring. Stand still, watch, as the dreams unfold. When your love arrives, meet them at the door, help them with their things. Gather your favorite blanket or comforter; big enough for the two of you. Set up all you will need for the next few hours, have his/ her favorite drink prepared. We will have hot chocolate, now in front of your big picture window or maybe you have a balconey over looking a lake. Wrap yourselves in the covers, indulge in your treats and in each other...

365 Days of Love Today we are back on track right? Now let me ask you what does the word LOVE mean to you? I ask this because in our journey, we can not get to our destination if we're not clear. Do you know what kind of lover or partner you are in your relationship? for example... when there is an upset in the air. You pull back (A Subtractor) You make things hard for them (A Punisher) You try to make thing right again ( A Pleaser) You withhold sex (A Controler) He/She has never understood your point of view, He/She always control the argument... You are never right, they are always right, in all the whole three hundred years you've been together. (A Door Mat) Today we are in love with knowing we can choose...LOVE!

365 Days of Love OK , today is a good day, I can't say the same for yesterday. Saturday the 37 th day into our love journey. My love and I was in Blockbuster video store, just walked in, my man say ask the girl a the desk "where are the blu -ray videos" . I'm standing right in front of her ; as I walked in a went straight over to see the now available list. Now when he say ask, I ask him in a sweet soft voice "the one's for sale". He snapped and said "NO! THE ONES FOR SALE", across the room this came and slapped me in my face. I did not understand why he had just spoke to me in such a harsh tone and, in front of this blockbuster employee. Who's now looking at me with sad eyes, In my mind, the store Carrie both videos for rent and for sale, witch neither of these words was in his sentence . WOW! I asked for the keys, in a sweet soft voice. I went, got in the car and waited while he finished his search. Now, we will have our moments. ...

Love is all things beautiful, It is not the weight we feel on our shoulders. it is the joy we feel in our hearts when everything else is gray.