365 Days of Love
After talking with one of my vary beautiful girlfriends last night, I was inspired to go this route today...
I don't want to confuse our journey, to LOVE 365 does not mean to except abuse in order to LOVE someone. We must give it to receive it, receive it to give it, it is reciprocated and is reciprocal.
The first step is understanding LOVE... LOVE is patient, love is kind and is not jealous; LOVE does not brag and is not arrogant,it dose not hurt..
HURT is when you have a blacks eye, when he say words to you that kills your spirit, kills your self worth,when you cant complete a thought without him taking over, making it hes, you no longer have a voice, he does not validate your feeling, good or bad. He withholds his LOVE through using sex as a weapon as a tool to control or manipulate you, to deprive you of emotional fulfillment. These are all forms of Abuse.
LOVE has a look and a sound;it is GOOD, LOVE is an Action word. When your mate say they LOVE you, their words and actions should be in alignment. They can not say they love but their action is as if they hate you, they can not treat you like they love but their words are as if they hate you. The two go hand in hand, remember, just because they don't hit you, does not mean their not abusing you. The most painful bruises are the ones you can't see. To BE CONTINUED...
After talking with one of my vary beautiful girlfriends last night, I was inspired to go this route today...
I don't want to confuse our journey, to LOVE 365 does not mean to except abuse in order to LOVE someone. We must give it to receive it, receive it to give it, it is reciprocated and is reciprocal.
The first step is understanding LOVE... LOVE is patient, love is kind and is not jealous; LOVE does not brag and is not arrogant,it dose not hurt..
HURT is when you have a blacks eye, when he say words to you that kills your spirit, kills your self worth,when you cant complete a thought without him taking over, making it hes, you no longer have a voice, he does not validate your feeling, good or bad. He withholds his LOVE through using sex as a weapon as a tool to control or manipulate you, to deprive you of emotional fulfillment. These are all forms of Abuse.
LOVE has a look and a sound;it is GOOD, LOVE is an Action word. When your mate say they LOVE you, their words and actions should be in alignment. They can not say they love but their action is as if they hate you, they can not treat you like they love but their words are as if they hate you. The two go hand in hand, remember, just because they don't hit you, does not mean their not abusing you. The most painful bruises are the ones you can't see. To BE CONTINUED...
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